"That you may love the LORD your God, listen to his voice, and hold fast to him. For the LORD is your life, and he will give you many years in the land he swore to give to your fathers, Abraham, Isaac and Jacob." (Deuteronomy 30:20, NIV)
Love is a choice and a commitment. You choose to love or you choose not to love.
Today we've bought into this myth that love is uncontrollable, that it's something that just happens to us; it's not something we control. In fact, even the language we use implies the uncontrollability of love. We say, "I fell in love," as if love is some kind of a ditch. It's like I'm walking along one day and bamm! - I fell in love. I couldn't help myself.
But I have to tell you the truth - that's not love. Love doesn't just happen to you. Love is a choice and it represents a commitment.
There's no doubt about it, that attraction is uncontrollable and arousal is uncontrollable. But attraction and arousal are not love. They can lead to love, but they are not love. Love is a choice.
You must choose to love God; he won't force you to love him (Deuteronomy 30:20). You can thumb your nose at God and go a totally different way. You can destroy your life if you choose to do that. God still won't force you to love him. Because he knows love can't be forced.
And this same principle is true about your relationships: you can choose to love others, but God won't force you to love anyone.
"Trust and obey, for there’s no other way to be happy in Jesus, but to trust and obey"
Trust and obey. That is it!! Just trust and obey. It sounds so simple but sometimes it is so hard. When you can't see the next step, when everything seems to be going wrong and you can't find a way out, trusting and obeying seems impossible right? But God is always there right beside you. You might not feel that He is there but He is. Just trust!
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When we walk with the Lord in the light of His Word,
What a glory He sheds on our way!
While we do His good will, He abides with us still,
And with all who will trust and obey.
Refrain
Trust and obey, for there’s no other way
To be happy in Jesus, but to trust and obey.
Not a shadow can rise, not a cloud in the skies,
But His smile quickly drives it away;
Not a doubt or a fear, not a sigh or a tear,
Can abide while we trust and obey.
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Not a burden we bear, not a sorrow we share,
But our toil He doth richly repay;
Not a grief or a loss, not a frown or a cross,
But is blessed if we trust and obey.
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But we never can prove the delights of His love
Until all on the altar we lay;
For the favor He shows, for the joy He bestows,
Are for them who will trust and obey.
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Then in fellowship sweet we will sit at His feet.
Or we’ll walk by His side in the way.
What He says we will do, where He sends we will go;
Never fear, only trust and obey.
My dad emailed this to me and I thought I would share it.....
Your Kindness Quotient
by Max Lucado
How kind are you? What is your kindness quotient? When was the last time you did something kind for someone in your family--e.g., got a blanket, cleaned off the table, prepared the coffee--without being asked?
Think about your school or workplace. Which person is the most overlooked or avoided? A shy student? A grumpy employee? Maybe he doesn't speak the language. Maybe she doesn't fit in. Are you kind to this person?
Kind hearts are quietly kind. They let the car cut into traffic and the young mom with three kids move up in the checkout line. They pick up the neighbor's trash can that rolled into the street. And they are especially kind at church. They understand that perhaps the neediest person they'll meet all week is the one standing in the foyer or sitting on the row behind them in worship. Paul writes: "When we have the opportunity to help anyone, we should do it. But we should give special attention to those who are in the family of believers" (Gal. 6:10).
And, here is a challenge--what about your enemies? With the boss who fired you or the wife who left you. Suppose you surprised them with kindness? Not easy? No, it's not. But mercy is the deepest gesture of kindness. Paul equates the two. "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you" (Eph. 4:32 NKJV).
Jesus said: Love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you.... If you love only the people who love you, what praise should you get? ... [L]ove your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without hoping to get anything back. Then you will have a great reward, and you will be children of the Most High God, because he is kind even to people who are ungrateful and full of sin. Show mercy, just as your Father shows mercy. (Luke 6:27-28, 32, 35-36)
Kindness at home. Kindness in public. Kindness at church and kindness with your enemies. Pretty well covers the gamut, don't you think? Almost. Someone else needs your kindness. Who could that be? You.
Since he is so kind to us, can't we be a little kinder to ourselves? Oh, but you don't know me, Max. You don't know my faults and my thoughts. You don't know the gripes I grumble and the complaints I mumble. No, I don't, but he does. He knows everything about you, yet he doesn't hold back his kindness toward you. Has he, knowing all your secrets, retracted one promise or reclaimed one gift?
No, he is kind to you. Why don't you be kind to yourself? He forgives your faults. Why don't you do the same? He thinks tomorrow is worth living. Why don't you agree? He believes in you enough to call you his ambassador, his follower, even his child. Why not take his cue and believe in yourself?
Be kind to yourself. God thinks you're worth his kindness. And he's a good judge of character.
On a plane somewhere again I take my place in line just like every other time I slide into my window seat She was sitting there One seat over so I said "Hello, how are you today?" With my smile I could see the hope within her eyes And I knew that something's different today [CHORUS:] Though everything's the same inside there's something real A faith which causes me to change. (But what's different now) A spark is gleaming in my eye like diamond stars that fill the sky I think a smile says it all A smile says it all The conversation presses on As miles pass below, she said I have to let you know You seem so different to me There is a joy inside The love of God is all I know from which this could originate With one smile I could see, the faith we share inside And I know that something's different today [BRIDGE:] I see what a smile can say about me I know that words are not always what speak Sometimes it's not what I say That the world around me seems to understand
Monday, July 27, 2009
Psalms 3:8
"Salvation belongs to the Lord. Your blessing is upon Your people"
This verse jumped out at me today. What a lovely verse.
I look forward to every post and enjoy reading them very much.
"Encouragement is so important, isn't it? It's amazing what a difference an encouraging word can make in someone's life. And it doesn't always have to be words, I know that there have been different people who have encouraged me with something as simple as a hug or a smile. One of my favorite "Hide 'Em in Your Heart" songs is based on 1 Thessalonians 5:11 NIV ("Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing"). But encouraging someone isn't always as simple as smiling at them, is it? Sometimes it means getting out of our comfort zone and risking rejection or embarrassment (even though not many people reject encouragement, we can sometimes still feel like they will). Unfortunately, I don't know any way of getting over the awkward feeling of stepping out of our comfort zones except to do it over and over. I have to confess that I'm not very good at this, but "practice makes perfect", and I'm going to give you a few ideas on how to 'practice' starting with the least awkward. :-)
1. Smile at people! You might be amazed at how attractive and uplifting a smile is. If you've ever smiled at someone and not had them respond, you know that it's always a bit of a let down when you don't get a smile back. I've had bad days where I went to the store and a total stranger smiled at me and it really did make my day better. :-)
2. Serve people. Now I'm not necessarily talking about painting someone's house or doing their laundry. Simply getting someone a glass of water or helping them cut up vegetables for lunch can encourage them.
3. Give a hug! A hug is a very efficient and simple way to encourage someone without words. Sometimes you might find that someone gets tears in their eyes when you hug them and, assuming that you weren't just squeezing them too hard, that's a sure sign that they really needed that hug. (Now, obviously there are people that you wouldn't feel comfortable hugging, and that's fine. You should never hug anyone that you feel creeped out by, and probably you would only want to hug your friends and family anyways.)
4. Write a note or send an e-card to someone telling them that you are glad that you are friends (or sisters, or cousins, or whatever), and say something that you specifically like about them. (i.e. "Dear Martha, I am so glad that we are friends. Your patience with the little children really challenges and encourages me to be more patient. Thank you so much for your example! Love, Joy" ~ of course you're supposed to insert your friend's name and your name in the place of "Martha" and Joy! ~)
5. Listen to them. Simply listening can make a huge difference to someone and be very encouraging.
6. Tell someone something that you like about them ("I love the way you reply to letters so quickly").
7. Encourage them in the area that they really need it. This can be a little more tricky because, unless they have specifically confided in you, they might feel as though you are picking on them instead of encouraging them. Even if they have confided in you, sometimes this idea backfires and they get upset so use at your own discretion.
When you are a wife, you will be your husband's main encourager and 'cheerleader' (can anyone think of a better word than 'cheerleader'?), so if you can practice encouraging and cheering on your family, friends, ect. now, you will have a head start on knowing how to do it when you get married.
There are many ways that you can encourage people, and some of them are as simple as doing the job your Mom asked you to the FIRST time she asks. Use your imagination and encourage people in your everyday life. (On a side note, did you know that simply living a Christian life can encourage others?)"
Well as I mentioned a few post ago we were putting an offer in on a house about 3 hours from here, But the deal fell through. The owners weren't being very cooperative so we are still praying God will show us what he wants us to do.
So as you may know I have been reading Do hard things.
Today I was reading about low expectations that people have for teens. They quoted a education expert that said "Our current ceiling for students is really much closer to where the floor ought to be." YIKES!! That is rather scary!!
As I was reading I was thinking about a lot of low expectations that people have for teens. It was pretty scary!! Can you think of any? I would love to hear what you guys think up!!
~K
P.S. If you guys ever get the chance get Do hard things. It is REALLY good!
Sorry for disappearing there for a bit. We had a VERY busy week. We went to look at houses and properties for sale. We found one house that would be almost perfect. So could you all pray that we have wisdom and know Gods will?? Thanks!!
Here is a story that someone posted on a forum I am on....
Malachi 3:3 says: "He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver."
This verse puzzled some women in a Bible study and they wondered what this statement meant about the character and nature of God. One of the women offered to find out the process of refining silver and get back to the group at their next Bible Study.
That week, the woman called a silversmith and made an appointment to watch him at work. She didn't mention anything about the reason for her interest beyond her curiosity about the process of refining Silver. As she watched the silversmith, he held a piece of silver over the fire and let it heat up. He explained that in refining silver, one needed to hold the silver in the middle of the fire where the flames were hottest as to burn away all the impurities. The woman thought about God holding us in such a hot spot; then she thought again about the verse that says: "He sits as a refiner and purifier of silver." She asked the silversmith if it was true that he had to sit there. The man answered that yes, he not only had to sit there holding the silver, but he had to keep his eyes on the silver the entire time it was in the fire. If the silver was left a moment too long in the flames, it would be destroyed. The woman was silent for a moment. Then she asked the silversmith, "How do you know when the silver is fully refined?" He smiled at her and answered, "Oh, that's easy -- when I see my image in it."
If today you are feeling the heat of the fire , remember that God has his eye on you and will keep watching you until He sees His image in you.
Pass this on right now. This very moment, someone needs to know that God is watching over them. And, whatever they're going through, they'll be a better person in the end.
"You can spend life anyway you wish, but you can only spend it once."
Think about it!!
Here is my choice song of the week....
Try something a little different and read the words first then listen to the song. It really helped me to grasp what the words really meant.
What is Mean
I've been here a thousand times before... Face down on the floor Wondering how I even reached this place again
[PRECHORUS] But you've shown so endlessly, How your love pours over me, No picture can re-create the beauty that I see
[CHORUS] Show me what it means, To live my life a sacrifice, If only I would realize how much It took to pay the price, I know I'd always give, Everything to you
I want this world to always see Your perfect majesty, Reflecting from my life this brilliant poetry
[PRECHORUS] Written all over this place, The signs of all creation that you breathed, Words can't even state how much you mean to me
CHORUS
I want to face my very crime, Of not always giving all of mine, But I can feel the hope you bring to me
How are we going to make our fathers have a truly happy Fathers day??? Any ideas??
Maybe try doing some extra things or taking the time to listen to him and talk to him, having good a attitude, etc
BUT! there is always a "but".... Lets make sure that we are like that EVERY DAY of the year! Not just on Fathers Day. When you say "I love you dad" do you really mean it? Actions speak loader than words!!!
Love is not a place To come and go as we please It's a house we answer in Then commit to never leave
So lock the door behind you Throw away the key We'll work it out together Let it bring us to our knees
Chorus: Love is a shelter in a raging storm Love is peace in the middle of a war And if we try to leave, may God send angels to guard the door No, love is not a fight but it's something worth fighting for
To some, love is a word That they can fall into But when they're falling out Keeping that word is hard to do
Chorus: Love is a shelter in a raging storm Love is peace in the middle of a war And if we try to leave, may God send angels to guard the door No, love is not a fight but it's something worth fighting for
Love will come to save us If we'll only call He will ask nothing from us But demand we give our all
Chorus: Love is a shelter in a raging storm Love is peace in the middle of a war And if we try to leave, may God send angels to guard the door No, love is not a fight but it's something worth fighting for
I will fight for you Would you fight for me? It's worth fighting for
------------ While I'm Waiting by John Waller
I'm waiting I'm waiting on You, Lord And I am hopeful I'm waiting on You, Lord Though it is painful But patiently, I will wait
I will move ahead, bold and confident Taking every step in obedience While I'm waiting I will serve You While I'm waiting I will worship While I'm waiting I will not faint I'll be running the race Even while I wait
I'm waiting I'm waiting on You, Lord And I am peaceful I'm waiting on You, Lord Though it's not easy But faithfully, I will wait Yes, I will wait I will serve You while I'm waiting I will worship while I'm waiting I will serve You while I'm waiting I will worship while I'm waiting I will serve you while I'm waiting I will worship while I'm waiting on You, Lord
A while ago I was struggling with the fact that I was "to young to serve God in any big way. I am just a teen how can I do something big for God?" Well that might be what the world wants us teens to think but it isn't true!!
Our teen years are the best years we have! We don't have to worry about half the things our parents have to think about and take care of. We have been given this time to serve God and give him everything we have so why aren't we? Well that is the question.
So what I am going to challenge you and myself to do is this... Try and do one "small" thing a day for the next 7 days. Also see if you can think of some ways to do hard things. It may not mean going out and talking to a whole bunch of people. Something that might be hard for one person might be easy for the next i.e. answering the phone ;) I DO NOT like answering the phone!!
So try it!! We only get to be teens once!! So lets use the years God has given us and make a difference!!
Sorry for not posting in a while. Things have been really busy lately and it doesn't look like it will slow down any time soon.
Well all good books much come to an end. I am done reading Before you meet Prince charming. I would strongly suggest getting a copy and reading it!! It is well worth it!! I wish I could point out one thing or a certain part that was my favourite but the whole book was simply amazing!!
I am now going to start reading Do hard things by Alex and Brett Harris. Both my older brother and sister have read it and really liked it so I am going to read it next. I can hardly wait!!! I will probably do like I did while I was reading Before you meet Prince charming and just read a section when I am doing my Bible reading. It seemed to work really well and I always had something to think about or try and apply through out the day.
Here are two songs that were played at my Grandma's funeral. This past week I kept remembering them.
"I Can Only Imagine" by MercyMe
I can only imagine What it will be like When I walk By your side I can only imagine What my eyes will see When your face Is before me I can only imagine [Chorus:] Surrounded by Your glory, what will my heart feel Will I dance for you Jesus or in awe of you be still Will I stand in your presence or to my knees will I fall Will I sing hallelujah, will I be able to speak at all I can only imagine I can only imagine When that day comes And I find myself Standing in the Son I can only imagine When all I will do Is forever Forever worship You I can only imagine [Chorus] I can only imagine [x2] I can only imagine When all I will do Is forever, forever worship you
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Amazing Grace My Chains Are Gone - Chris Tomlin
Amazing grace How sweet the sound That saved a wretch like me I once was lost, but now I'm found Was blind, but now I see 'Twas grace that taught my heart to fear And grace my fears relieved How precious did that grace appear The hour I first believed
My chains are gone I've been set free My God, my Savior has ransomed me And like a flood His mercy rains Unending love, Amazing grace
The Lord has promised good to me His word my hope secures He will my shield and portion be As long as life endures
The earth shall soon dissolve like snow The sun forbear to shine But God, Who called me here below Will be forever mine Will be forever mine You are forever mine
I have seen the many faces, I fear in the pain. I have watched the tears fall plenty, From heart ache and strength. So if life's journey, Has you weary and afraid. There's rest in the shadow of his wings. I have walked through the valleys, The mountains and plains. I have held the hand of freedom, It washes all my stains. If you feel the weight of many trials, And burdens from this world. There's freedom in the shelter of the Lord.
Chorus: I have seen, The healing hand of God, Reaching out and mending broken hearts. Taste and see the fullness of His peace, And hold on to what's being held out. The healing hand of God.
I have touched the scars upon His hands, To see if they were real. He has walked the road before me, He knows just how I feel. When you feel there is not anyone, Who understands your pain, Just remember all of Jesus' suffering.
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Cast all your cares on Him, For He cares for you. He's near to the broken and confused. By His stripes, Our spirit is renewed. So enter in the joy prepared for you.
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The healing hand of God (x2) And hold on to what's being held out (x2) The healing hand of God Oh Oh Oh Oh
James 3:17 17But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. 18Peacemakers who sow in peace raise a harvest of righteousness.
My brother and I just got back from cutting grass and while I was walking back and forth pushing a lawn mower I had a lot of time to think...and pray. What a better time to pray and talk to God!!
A couple months ago well not even, more like 3 weeks ago when ever I was doing chores or anything that I didn't have to concentrate on I would find myself thinking about things, that even though they weren't bad they weren't necessary to think about and took my mind away from God and godly things. So to cure me of this I started praying every time I started.
I found that I was...
(1) Trusting God more because I was praying more and giving my problems, worries and everything little thing over to God (2) I was able to pray for others and not always be praying for me, myself and I. (3) I was able to thank God for the things that He was doing in my life instead of always asking things of Him. And last but not least I FELT WAY BETTER!!! I felt free!!
So today while I was cutting grass I found myself praying without even knowing it! I was like "Wow!" It was such an improvement!!
So my question is, how much time are you giving God? Are you just saying a quick prayer every now and then? or are you really talking to God and having conversations with Him?
I hope you will take the time and really start praying and not just once or twice but every chance you get!! I did and I feel so much better! When ever I am worried about something or weighted down by anything I give it to my heavenly Father that cares and wants to here from me, His child.
When was the last time you got on your knees and cried out to God about something other than personal issues? We're often so involved in our own busy lives that we fail to see the crises others are facing. I'm talking about situations that don't affect our immediate family at all, rather than, say, the deployment of a soldier we know or a terrorist attack on our land. But whether circumstances touch total strangers or hit "close to home," doesn't it often feel as if such matters are just too big for one person's prayer to make a difference?
This is a lie straight from Satan. He wants us to assume that cataclysmic or tragic problems are too vast for our petition to have any effect. Scripture disagrees: James 5:16 assures us that "the effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much." And verse 17 provides a powerful example: "Elijah was a man with a nature like ours, and he prayed earnestly that it would not rain, and it did not rain on the earth for three years and six months."
Almighty God is able to heal, bring peace, and change circumstances. And He has chosen to let His children participate in the process through prayer. He instructs us to talk with Him about everything (Phil. 4:6) and promises to hear when sin does not obstruct our communication (Ps. 66:18).
The next time you hear of a tragedy or problem--regardless of whether it affects people you know or perfect strangers--resist the temptation to distance yourself from it. You can have an impact on the lives of others when you intercede on their behalf. So let news of a crisis become a catalyst for prayer.
The disciples went to sleep when they should have kept awake, and when they realized what they had done it produced despair. The sense of the irreparable is apt to make us despair, and we say - "It is all up now, it is no use trying any more." If we imagine that this kind of despair is exceptional, we are mistaken, it is a very ordinary human experience. Whenever we realize that we have not done that which we had a magnificent opportunity of doing, then we are apt to sink into despair; and Jesus Christ comes and says - "Sleep on now, that opportunity is lost for ever, you cannot alter it, but arise and go to the next thing." Let the past sleep, but let it sleep on the bosom of Christ, and go out into the irresistible future with Him.
There are experiences like this in each of our lives. We are in despair, the despair that comes from actualities, and we cannot lift ourselves out of it. The disciples in this instance had done a downright unforgivable thing; they had gone to sleep instead of watching with Jesus, but He came with a spiritual initiative against their despair and said - "Arise and do the next thing." If we are inspired of God, what is the next thing? To trust Him absolutely and to pray on the ground of His Redemption.
Never let the sense of failure corrupt your new action.
Well we just got back. It is so nice to be home. It was a great trip all in all. Wednesday was the hardest I think. It was the day of the funeral and well lets just say it was REALLY HARD! It is amazing how songs take on a whole new meaning when you are mourning the loss of a loved one. Our uncle was there and was one of the pallbearers with my older brother. It was a beautiful day. The sun was shining and there was a light breeze so it couldn't have been better weather wise.
The rest of the trip went really well. We saw old friends that we hadn't seen in a while [over a year or more]. My mom, sister and I went book shopping one afternoon. That was fun. I only bought one book but it was a lot of fun helping my sister carry books, add up how much they would all cost and watch her find books that she really wanted.
One think that I found hard was keeping my thoughts pure and not thinking things that I shouldn't think. But God helped me through it and today I hardly ever thought any of the thoughts. I am glad to be back home in our small town where there is less people.
On our 3 hour trip home today I was listening to the music on my MP3 player and I started really listening to the words of the songs [they were all Christian songs] and it was just amazing. Like so many times I am just listening to music while I am on the internet or in my room doing something but how many times am I really listening to the words that are in the song. They are POWERFUL!!! When you are in a van with six other people and driving down the highway with nothing but rocks, water and trees to look at [and after about 5 seconds you get tired of that ;)] you can just close your eyes and really listen to the music and realize what it means and what the song is saying.
So I challenge you to take the time and really listen to the words in the songs and not just use it to pass the time. Plus don't just listen but APPLY it to your life, if of course you are listening to good music with a good message :)
Anyways I have to go now. Lots of things to catch up on and I have to unpack.
Just an ordinary day in Heaven, lookin’ down the Streets of Gold. You can hear the strings and the angel wings, see the saints of Old. Then suddenly God breaks a smile, and begins His song, "Look my Son is comin’ home!"
Open up the Pearly Gates of Heaven. Build another mansion next to mine. Everybody dance and shout for joy around the throne. Set another place at the table. Sound the trumpet loud and clear this time. Halleluiah, my child is comin’ home.
Now they say the only time God sings is when a lost soul believes. And they say that there’s a celebration there beside the Crystal Sea. And God, Himself, directs the choir and the welcome band. And then He sings out once again.
Open up the Pearly Gates of Heaven. Build another mansion next to mine. Everybody dance and shout for joy around the throne. Set another place at the table. Sound the trumpet loud and clear this time. Halleluiah, my child is comin’ home.
Come on, play the anthem strong. Come on, join in, sing along, sing it strong.
Open up the Pearly Gates of Heaven. Build another mansion next to mine. Everybody dance and shout for joy around the throne. Set another place at the table. Sound the trumpet loud and clear this time. Halleluiah, my child is comin’ home.
Open up the Pearly Gates of Heaven. Build another mansion next to mine. Everybody dance and shout for joy around the throne. Set another place at the table. Sound the trumpet loud and clear this time. Halleluiah, my child is comin’ home.
When I first heard this song I really liked just because it was a nice song but now I love it because says exactly how I feel.
Homesick by MercyMe...
You're in a better place, I've heard a thousand times And at least a thousand times I've rejoiced for you But the reason why I'm broken, the reason why I cry Is how long must I wait to be with you
I close my eyes and I see your face If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow I've never been more homesick than now
Help me Lord cause I don't understand your ways The reason why I wonder if I'll ever know But, even if you showed me, the hurt would be the same Cause I'm still here so far away from home
I close my eyes and I see your face If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow I've never been more homesick than now
In Christ, there are no goodbye And in Christ, there is no end So I'll hold onto Jesus with all that I have To see you again To see you again
And I close my eyes and I see your face If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow Won't you give me strength to make it through somehow Won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
I've never been more homesick than now
Tomorrow we are going to the funeral for my Grandma. We are going to be gone for a couple days so I wouldn't be posting here until we get back.
Thank you all for your prayers! They have meant a lot!
My adopted Grandma, a small person with a huge heart. She was always ready to serve, listen and give a hug!! She went to be with Jesus this morning as she was doing what she loved to do, serving others. She is in Heaven now, where there is no pain or tears.
The last time I talked to her was in February when she phoned. She had a great time talking and laughing together. She was given the best Mothers day present that could be, to see her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.
She will never be forgotten no matter how many years to go by, there will always be memories to look back on and I know that I will see her again, I don't know when it will be but I know that someday we will see each other and be reunited.
As my sister has so nicely put it "She is not dead, she is alive! She is with Jesus!" With Jesus! Wow! What a thought. My dear Grandma, RIGHT NOW is with Jesus. What a wonderful thought indeed!!
She has passed from this world to the next, leaving us with just the memories of times gone by, but what memories they are!!!
She has left a wonderful legacy of faith that we will never forget. Her life, actions and words were a blessing to so many and I am very blessed to have known her all my life.
My Mom is going to be reading "Doing hard things" by Alex and Brett Harris to my brother, sister and I during our Bible time every afternoon. It sounds REALLY good and I can hardly wait to get started!!! Lord willing I will be posting about what we are reading here and letting you all know what I think about it.
Today I finally had the time to read some more of "Before you meet Prince Charming". Man I didn't know how much I was missing reading that!! It was right what I needed to read today.
I have been struggling for the last couple weeks with not knowing what God wants me to do with my life. I think I was telling myself that I wasn't old enough to really serve God in ways that I would be able to do if I was older. I know that is not true but I was still struggling. So the chapter I read today was about serving God where you are and not wasting your youth and/or wishing it away and that was exactly what I was doing, wishing my youth away.
So now I have a new look at my life. I have such a great chance to serve God is SO many ways. Yes it might not be going out into the world and making a huge difference but serving your family and others around you is just a good and not just serving them but serving others with a cheerful attitude. There is a big difference!! [I hope all that made sense :)]
I love this verse... 1 Timothy 4:12 "Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, in faith, in purity."
Why would I want to be older then I am? God has a plan for my life and He has a plan for me NOW!!!
Here is a beautiful song that blessed me so much today!!!
Awaken by Natalie Grant
Sometimes I feel like I'm just existing I'm not really living I'm only watching the time slip away I've forgotten who I am in You I'm not who I'm meant to be I'm drifting farther away from my destiny
Chorus Awaken my heart, awaken my soul Awaken Your power and take control Awaken the passion to live for You, Lord Awaken me
My soul is longing, my heart is searching I'm desperate for You to move give me a hunger, pull me closer I'm crying out to You
Awaken my heart, awaken my soul Awaken Your power and take control Awaken the passion to live for You, Lord
Open my eyes so I can see Your presence Dwelling inside wake me up, 'cause I can't live another minute If I'm not shining Your light
Awaken my heart, awaken my soul Awaken the passion in me
Lord, awaken me to live my destiny Lord, awaken me and shine Your light through me Lord, awaken me to live my destiny Lord, awaken me and shine Your light through me
~K
Here are some of my favourite songs. They have really spoken to me and I hope they bless you as much as they have blessed me!
Lifesong Lyrics
Empty hands held high Such a small sacrifice If not joined with my life I sing in vain tonight
May the words I say And the things I do Make my lifesong sing Bring a smile to You
Chorus: Let my lifesong sing to You Let my lifesong sing to You I want to sign your name to the end of this day Knowing that my heart was true Let my lifesong sing to You
Lord, I give my life A living sacrifice To reach a world in need To be Your hands and feet
So may the words I say And the things I do Make my lifesong sing Bring a smile to you
(Chorus)
Hallelujah Hallelujah Let my lifesong sing to You (2x)
I was sure by now That You would have reached down And wiped our tears away Stepped in and saved the day But once again, I say "Amen", and it's still raining
As the thunder rolls I barely hear You whisper through the rain "I'm with you" And as Your mercy falls I raise my hands and praise the God who gives And takes away
Chorus: I'll praise You in this storm And I will lift my hands For You are who You are No matter where I am Every tear I've cried You hold in Your hand You never left my side And though my heart is torn I will praise You in this storm
I remember when I stumbled in the wind You heard my cry You raised me up again My strength is almost gone How can I carry on If I can't find You
I lift my eyes unto the hills Where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord The maker of heaven and earth
It’s hard to stand On shifting sand It’s hard to shine In the shadows of the night You can’t be free If you don’t reach for help And you can’t love If you don’t love yourself But there is hope when my faith runs out Cause I’m in better hands now
Chorus It’s like the sun is shining When the rain is pouring down It’s like my soul is flying Though my feet are on the ground So take this heart of mine There’s no doubt I’m in better hands now
I am strong All because of you I stand in awe of Every mountain that you move I am changed Yesterday is gone I am safe From this moment on And there’s no fear when the night comes around I’m in better hands now
Chorus It’s like the sun is shining When the rain is pouring down It’s like my soul is flying Though my feet are on the ground So take this heart of mine There’s no doubt I’m in better hands now
It’s like the sun is shining When the rain is pouring down It’s like my soul is flying Though my feet are on the ground It’s like the world is silent Though I know it isn’t true It’s like the breath of Jesus Is right here in this room So take this heart of mine There’s no doubt
You can’t be saved If you’re not reaching out for help
I know this one has the lyrics with the video but I thought that I would post the lyrics anyways :)
Who I am
Who am I? That the Lord of all the earth, Would care to know my name, Would care to feel my hurt. Who am I? That the bright and morning star, Would choose to light the way, For my ever wandering heart.
Bridge: Not because of who I am, But because of what you've done. Not because of what I've done, But because of who you are.
Chorus: I am a flower quickly fading, Here today and gone tomorrow, A wave tossed in the ocean, A vapor in the wind. Still you hear me when I'm calling, Lord, you catch me when I'm falling, And you've told me who I am. I am yours. I am yours.
Who am I? That the eyes that see my sin Would look on me with love And watch me rise again. Who am I? That the voice that calmed the sea, Would call out through the rain, And calm the storm in me.
Not because of who I am, But because of what you've done. Not because of what I've done, But because of who you are.
I am a flower quickly fading, Here today and gone tomorrow, A wave tossed in the ocean, A vapor in the wind. Still you hear me when I'm calling, Lord, you catch me when I'm falling, And you've told me who I am. I am yours.
Not because of who I am, But because of what you've done. Not because of what I've done, But because of who you are.
I am a flower quickly fading, Here today and gone tomorrow, A wave tossed in the ocean, A vapor in the wind. Still you hear me when I'm calling, Lord, you catch me when I'm falling, And you've told me who I am. I am yours. I am yours.
Whom shall I fear Whom shall I fear I am yours.. I am yours..
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I will post some others later.
~K
Well summer is just around the corner, the bugs are here, the flowers are coming up, the trees are in blossom and the grass is green and growing!!! What a wonderful sight!! [except the bugs, snakes, bees, wasps etc but that can't be helped ;)] God is so good!!! It is so nice walking outside and seeing all that God has created. It is all so beautiful!!
One of my little brothers just had a birthday! It is such a blessing having little brothers!!! and of course I love having a big brother and sister too!! I couldn't imagine my life with out my family.
I am really looking forward to this summer and all that God has planned.
Just remember...
"As long as you are breathing, He is still working out His will for you." Charles Stanley
"Maybe the cost of obedience seems too high, but what about the cost of disobedience?" Charles Stanley
So what are your plans for the summer? are you looking forward to what ever God brings along? Are you ready to serve Him when he calls?
Knowing that we have a calling from the Lord is one thing, but living it out is another. Esther reached a point in her life when fulfilling God's plan became risky and dangerous. The Lord had placed her in a position of influence, but using that power could cost the young woman her life.
Few are called to be kings or queens, but we have all been given places of influence to one degree or another. The Lord has placed you in your family, community, and church to fulfill His purposes for your life in this generation. As long as you are breathing, He is still working out His will for you.
How will you respond to His calling? There are only two options: cooperate by submitting to His plan, or resist Him. Trying to avoid or ignore the opportunities He presents is a form of resistance. Maybe the cost of obedience seems too high, but what about the cost of disobedience?
Eventually, every Christian is going to encounter a situation that tests his or her willingness to obey God. When that time comes, remember the lesson from Esther. If you refuse, the Lord will use someone else, and you will lose the opportunity to fulfill His calling. Maybe you have been placed in a difficult situation "for such a time as this"--to be an influence for Christ in our dark world.
Living in God's calling isn't always easy, but it is always worth the risk. Each step will reveal the faithfulness of our Lord, encouraging us to trust Him in the next opportunity He provides. As our faith grows, His perfect timing will become evident, and we'll look with joy and expectation for what awaits us.
Probably the most cherished and comforting of all God's characteristics is His love. However, the fact that He loves us does not determine our eternal destiny; we can still be separated from Him in our lost condition.
Because the Father cares so much for mankind, He made provision to rescue us from our doomed state of alienation from Him. This offer of salvation is extended to everyone, but in order to benefit, a person must accept it. By the death of Christ on our behalf, the Lord opened the door for us to be saved, but He does not push anyone through.
Imagine that you've fallen into a rushing river and are about to drown. I jump in to save you, but you refuse my help. Did my diving in save you? No, you did not accept my offer of rescue. In the same way, God made every provision for your salvation, but you must respond to His offer.
Just as a swimmer stretches out a hand to accept rescue, so each of us must reach out in faith, believing that Jesus died for us. Accepting His forgiveness for our sins is not just an intellectual belief. A drowning man will not be saved if he merely knows that a swimmer can save him. He has to put his life in the hands of the rescuer and depend totally on him.
Simply relying on God's love to save you is not enough. Our heavenly Father desires that everyone be saved, but many will remain lost because they fail to accept His offer. The next move is yours. Choose to believe in Christ, and surrender your life to the One who is willing and able to save you.
Friday, May 1, 2009
"Conflict is inevitable but how YOU respond is YOUR choice" Charles Stanley
So yesterday I rode Prince bare back. Now to full understand how amazing that is you have to know why.
Before I bought Prince the people who owned him would get on Prince bareback when they were totally drunk and try and ride Prince. Try being the key word, Prince would buck them off and keep doing that as long as they tried riding him bareback. One time this happened the guy broke his arm and leg because of the fall. So about two years ago I started sitting above Prince on the fence or the gate, not having ANY intention of getting on him but Prince would start kicking, pinning his ears etc.
So ever since then I have been playing lots of friendly game and showing Prince that he can trust me. Now I have ridden Prince bareback but when I was up there I didn't really ask him to do a lot because I wanted him to see that I wasn't going to get up there and start telling him what to do. So yesterday Prince let me get on him, he didn't pin his ears or anything and we rode around and did almost every thing that we would do if I had a saddle on him. IT WAS AMAZING!!!!!
So the reason I wrote all that was because when I woke up this morning I was thinking about it and this is what came to me.
Prince trusts me to ride him with a saddle and when we are playing on the ground, he can trust me in all those areas but not totally when it comes to me riding him bareback.
So my question to myself and all you who will read this is, how much am I/you trusting God??? are there any areas that I haven't given over to God totally and completely?
Matthew 6:25-34 says:
"“Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing? 26 Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? 27 Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature? 28 “So why do you worry about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin; 29 and yet I say to you that even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. 30 Now if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is, and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will He not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? 31 “Therefore do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For after all these things the Gentiles seek. For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. 33 But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble."
At the moment we were born, a countdown began on our lives. Every tick of the clock brings us one step closer to our inescapable appointment with God. Each of us will stand before Him as we are about to enter our eternal destination.
Tragically, there will be shocking disappointment for some. Jesus Himself warned, "Many will say to Me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name . . . ?' And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness" (Matt. 7:22-23).
The only way to eternal life is through faith in Jesus. Truly, our sin has separated us from the Father. But God's Son provided the solution to this universal problem: Christ lived a perfect life and then died a sinner's death on the cross to pay the penalty each of us owed (Rom. 6:23). After three days, He rose from the grave, defeating death and evil. By accepting His sacrifice on our behalf, we no longer have to live apart from God.
To receive this amazing gift, we must simply believe in Jesus and what He did. As a result, we become new creations (2 Cor. 5:17), are adopted as God's children (Eph. 1:5), and enter into a never-ending personal relationship with our Father.
Do you have confidence about where you will spend eternity? You may assume you have time to figure out this important issue, but let me give you some wise advice: Don't wait another minute to settle the matter, because "later" may never come. Repent of your sin today, and follow Jesus.
Saturday, April 25, 2009
This is truly an amazing song!!! I really really like it, Please take the time to listen to it!!!
"I was takin a trip on a plane the other day just wishing that I could get out. When the man next to me saw the book in my hand and asked me what it was about. So I settled back in my seat- "A best seller," I said. "A history, a mystery in one." And then I opened up the book and began to read from Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John.
Chorus: He was born of a virgin one holy night in the little town of Bethlehem. Angels gathered round him underneath the stars singing praises to the great I Am. He walked on the water, healed the lame and made the blind to see again. And for the first time here on earth we learned that God could be a friend. And though he never ever did a single thing wrong the angry crowd chose him. And then he walked down the road and died on the cross and that was the end of the beginning.
"Thats not a new book thats a bible," he said, "and I've heard it all before. I've tried religion- its shame and guilt and I dont need it anymore. It's superstition, made up tales and just to help the weak to survive." "Let me read it again," I said, "listen closely, cuz this is gonna change your life.
(Chorus)
"The end of the beginning," he said with a smile. "What more could there be? He's dead. You said they hung him, put nails in His hands and a crown of thorns on His head." I said, "I'll read it again but this time there's more, and I believe that this is true. His death wasn't the end, the beginning of life that's completed in you. Don't you see he did all this for you!"
(Chorus) He was born of a virgin one holy night in the little town of Bethlehem All the angles singing praises to the great I AM He walked on the water, healed the lame, and made the blind to see(eee) (and for the first time here on earth) Did you know that God could be a friend. Tho He never ever did a single thing wrong, He was the one the crowd chose. then he walked and he died but three days later (3x) HE ROSE!!!!!!!!
Three days later he rose! You see he came, he lived, and he died. But that was the end of the beginning."
Did you realize that everyone's life makes a statement? Perhaps you've never looked at your routine as anything more than merely traveling back and forth to work and accomplishing daily tasks. If so, you might wonder what message this could possibly broadcast to the people around you.
The truth is that every one of us communicates to others through our character, actions, and words. The believer's life should be an expression of glory to God while conveying to onlookers the vital importance of divine truth. Wherever we are, Jesus' light should shine brightly through us so that He is evident in a dark world. And remember, the strength of our life message is directly related to the depth of our relationship with God.
Of course, this does not mean that our lives have to be perfect. But our responses and actions should demonstrate that our heavenly Father is dependable, faithful, forgiving, and present. We are His ambassadors, representing the Savior to the people we encounter each day. Our lives are opportunities for others to see the Lord in action, as we serve others--or as we reveal peacefulness and trust, even during difficult times.
Coworkers, family, neighbors, and friends are all witnesses to our daily conduct and conversation. Every encounter we have is an opportunity to reflect Jesus into somebody's life. Ask the Lord to strengthen your faith and your walk so that those around you can't help but be drawn towards His light.
"But prove yourselves doers of the word, and not merely hearers who delude themselves."
James 1:22 (The Message)
"Don't fool yourself into thinking that you are a listener when you are anything but, letting the Word go in one ear and out the other. Act on what you hear!"
Man I haven't done one of these in a while. Sorry about that. Things have been super busy.
So this weeks song is "My God's Enough" by BarlowGirl. If you go to the bottom of my blog you will see my play list. Scroll right down to the bottom of it and you will see the song there that you can listen too. It is great!
(Verse 1) I've had enough of living life for only me and reaching just for the things that keep destroying me So sick of envying the lives of so many I see somehow believing that they have what I need
(chorus) My God's enough for me This world has nothing I need in this whole life I've seen My God's enough, enough for me
(Verse 2) I can't explain why I suffer though I live for You those who deny You, they have it better than I do cover my eyes now so that my heart can finally see that in the end only You mean anything
(chorus) My God's enough for me this world has nothing I need in this whole life I've seen My God's enough, enough for me
Who have I but You, Jesus nothing I desire but You my heart may fail but not You You are mine forever
Who have I but you, who have I but you, who have I but you..ooh..you.
(Chorus) My God's enough for me this world has nothing I need in this whole life I've seen My God's enough, enough for me
God's assessment of David's heart is one of the highest praises that anyone has ever received from the Lord. And this commendation is not reserved exclusively for the most beloved king of Israel; in fact, our Father wants every one of His children to have a heart for Him.
The Lord testified that David was a man who would do all His will (Acts 13:22). In other words, the chief characteristic of a "heart for God" is a passion to obey Him. Not every act of the king's life was as the Lord would have desired, but his pattern was to follow after God. And David also knew what to do when he sinned. His prayer was that the Lord would search out any wicked way in him, clean it up, and help him get back on track to become the kind of person his Father wanted him to be (Ps. 139:23-24).
David's relationship with the Lord was his highest priority. Not only did he delight in God's Word, but many of his intimate conversations with the Father are also recorded for us in the book of Psalms. In addition, the Scriptures reveal many examples of how David trusted the Lord in all the challenges of his life. This humble servant recognized that God alone was responsible for any greatness he achieved as king.
Becoming a man or woman with a heart for God is a valuable goal. Our aim is not perfection but a consistent, growing relationship with the Lord. In the process, we will discover that our desires and interests align with God's, and obeying Him will be our great delight.
"Together, the Old and New Testaments teach us that man's problem is sin and the only remedy is faith in the Son of God: Jesus Christ." [from Dr.Charles Stanley's daily devotional] How simply put is that! It hits the nail right on the head!!
~K
Monday, April 13, 2009
James 1:5 (New American Standard Bible)
"But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him."
he name Jesus conveys different things to different people. Depending on the individual, it can mean an historical figure, a good teacher, a prophet, or a curse word. Yet to many throughout the world, that name is synonymous with "Lord and Savior."
What is it about that name? Why do some respond in praise and worship while others react in profanity and anger? The answer is that Jesus isn't simply a person; He's an issue. And our response to who He is determines not only our way of life, but also our eternal destiny.
The name of Jesus Christ represents all He is and all He does. Scripture identifies Him as the Son of God, equal to the Father in character and attributes: He is eternal, all-powerful, sovereign, and ever-present. The Bible also says He is the Creator and Sustainer of all things (Col. 1:16).
Jesus came to earth as the God-man for the purpose of saving mankind. Because He lived a perfect life, Christ is the only person in history who is qualified to pay the penalty for someone else's sin. He secured our forgiveness and offers us the gift of salvation on the basis of faith.
One day Christ will sit as mankind's ultimate, final judge. Those who have accepted His payment for their sins will live with Him forever.
Have you chosen to receive Christ's offer of salvation? A transformed life now and an eternal kingdom in heaven await all who call Him Savior and King. If you've never made the wise decision to accept His free gift, why not do so now? Then rejoice in the fact that Jesus will return as King of Kings and Lord of Lords.
As workers for God we have to learn to make room for God - to give God "elbow room." We calculate and estimate, and say that this and that will happen, and we forget to make room for God to come in as He chooses. Would we be surprised if God came into our meeting or into our preaching in a way we had never looked for Him to come? Do not look for God to come in any particular way, but look for Him. That is the way to make room for Him. Expect Him to come, but do not expect Him only in a certain way. However much we may know God, the great lesson to learn is that at any minute He may break in. We are apt to over look this element of surprise, yet God never works in any other way. All of a sudden God meets the life - "When it was the good pleasure of God. . ."
Keep your life so constant in its contact with God that His surprising power may break out on the right hand and on the left. Always be in a state of expectancy, and see that you leave room for God to come in as He likes.
Am I leaving room for God? Or am I just taking it my way and forgetting that God might have a better plan?
Okay well I started reading James today. WOW!!!!! I got three verses in and have stopped to lick and chew on that!!
James 1:2-3 (New King James Version)
"My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience."
I was looking through different translations and I thought that the Message Bible puts it an interesting way...
James 1:2-3(The Message Bible)
"Consider it a sheer gift, friends, when tests and challenges come at you from all sides. You know that under pressure, your faith-life is forced into the open and shows its true colors."
When trials come what do we do? Do we say "Oh no!" and get frustrated or do we say "Oh boy!" and "How interesting" and use the trial to learn and grow? It makes a big difference what you attitude is and what you think and say when something comes up.
So next time something comes up and you are about to say "Oh no" stop and say "Oh boy! What can I learn from this, how will I be a better person when this is over?" It really helps ;) trust me I have tried it and it is amazing how God works it all out!
“I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.” Galatians 2:20 ------------------------------------- "Jesus Christ humbled Himself to die in our place, which was not a show of weakness. On the contrary, He made the most powerful sacrifice He could—and He did it for you and me"
In His Time
In His time, in His time, He makes all thing beautiful in His time. Lord, my life to You I bring, May each song I have to sing, Be to You a lovely thing, in Your time.
The Ten Commandments
(1) You shall have no other gods before Me.
(2) You shall not make for yourself an idol, or any likeness of what is in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the water under the earth.
(3) You shall not take the name of the LORD your God in vain.
(4) Observe the sabbath day to keep it holy,
(5) Honor your father and your mother
(6) You shall not murder.
(7) You shall not commit adultery.
(8) You shall not steal.
(9) You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.
